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Happily ever after, right? For many people, that fairy tale ending doesn’t happen the first time around, but that doesn’t mean it won’t happen on your second try. Licensed psychologist, Jill Thorne, revealed the secrets to having a blissful and successful second marriage.

1. It helps if you start smart
–  Clean break from first marriage
–  Be a healthy individual
– Be a healthy couple

2. Have good boundaries
–  Acknowledge the numerous tensions and loyalties
–  Be kind and restful of the ex
– As a couple, plan to work harder in this marriage

3.  Pour energy into a compassionate perspective for all family members

4.  Build in fun, inclusive family activities in every situation and moment